So, if I am playing a game, and my sisters are playing a game. What would the conversation have looked like if "love" had guided it, rather than game playing? It's embarrassing that I don't seem to know what love is, or what love looks like! I thought I was a loving person, but perhaps I am not.
Also...I know you refer to "winning" fairly often in your writings, as in, "All you did here was win..." I think sometimes I am confused by the way you use "win."
I read the Parodoxical Commandments. They are amazing! I have been on the receiving end many times of the first one... from you !
"People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway"
One other warning. You may find playing the one-down position very painful at first. This pain is your repressed fear, and playing this game is one way you can get in touch with your own repressed fear. Just recognize it, and let it waft through you and the fear will finish itself. Love is your experience of yourself without so much repressed fear covering it over.